WED, APR 30, 6:30 PM // Big Ideas
Join director Violet Du Feng for a conversation about the complex and often challenging world of dating in modern-day China—where eligible men significantly outnumber women—including the role of technology in shaping romantic connections, shifting societal expectations, and the pressures individuals face in the search for love. Guest: Director Violet Du Feng.
About the film
The Dating Game offers a revealing glimpse into modern China’s hidden demographic crisis, following three long-term bachelors as they attend a seven-day intensive dating camp—their perceived last chance at finding love in a country where millions of men face the unexpected aftermath of the one-child policy. What begins as an entertaining observation of awkward attempts at dating evolves into a nuanced exploration of identity and authenticity. The film’s emotional centre emerges through the coach’s own transformation, as his teaching philosophy shifts from offering mechanical dating hacks to encouraging genuine self-expression.
This evolution cleverly mirrors broader themes about masculinity, insecurity and the intense societal pressures imposed on Chinese men. While balancing humour with heartfelt moments, the film captures these men’s vulnerability as they confront not just their romantic challenges but also their sense of self-worth. A uniquely engaging window on the ways personal struggles reflect larger societal shifts in a demographic landscape artificially altered by policy. Gugi Gumilang.
Hot Docs Members and ticket package holders can obtain single tickets in an advance window from March 25-31. Single tickets are on sale to the public starting April 1.
Sales Agent: Cinetic Media